One of the main reasons I’m in this lifestyle (D/s) is because deep within me I knew there had to be more to sex and making love to a partner than what I had been experiencing. I grew up in an era where women were either told or led to believe that men knew what they were doing and you just had to follow their lead. We all know now that was a bunch of crap propagated by men that wanted women to remain meek and subservient. Even if they themselves were ignorant on the art of making love. Sex was taught as a masculine trait and women were told to be virtuous in order to help the poor men regulate their sexuality because God knows they’d fuck whatever came their way. And if a woman explored her sexuality she’d be subject to ‘slut shaming’. There were times in history, not so distant in the past, she’d be put away in an asylum, or burnt at the stake for being a witch. The fear and/or control over a woman’s sexuality still prevail today in some countries as seen in the horrendous ritual of (Female Genital Mutilation).
One has to step back in awe at the power of the pussy! A warm and life giving place that at one time was considered a paradise in some cultures and the clitoris (that’s only existence is for pleasure!) magical and to be honored!
The battle over sexual power has waged many a war over the history of mankind. The freedom of a woman and her sexuality being at its core. BDSM, D/S and whatever floats your boat are avenues people have ventured into for centuries seeking the knowledge they knew deep down was out there. With the age of the internet more information is available and it will be interesting where the current ‘free for all’ tide takes us.
Lying low and peaceful in the midst of it all has been a teaching on sexuality, taught by Taoists for over 4,000 years. The highest level of kung-fu, the Taoist art of lovemaking. “The term “kung-fu” literally means “hard work” and applies to many practices to improving health and promoting long life and happiness. Shih- Shui is an advanced form of chi-kung/nei-kung that focuses on strengthening the internal body and increasing sexual energy with a goal to optimize and preserve the health of the body, mind and spirit. ” (From his web site)
I’ve recently had the good fortune of meeting and getting to know the only American student to learn this treasured knowledge directly from Taoist masters in Taiwan. James W. McNeil. “Master James McNeil was taught in the Oldest Taoist system known today as Little Nine Heaven Kung-fu, along with Pa-Kua, an advanced Taoist sexual energy circulation for health, longevity and mediation.” (From his web site)
My new friend sent me his ebook, Ancient Lovemaking Secrets: The Journey Toward Immortality.
(From his web site) This account of James W. McNeil’s extraordinary journey into the esoteric secrets of lovemaking will amaze and inspire you to immediately begin training yourself so that you too may walk the path of harmony, sexual bliss, spiritual realization and immortality (Taoist immortality means an abnormally long extension of life and organ functionality.) Through the stories and instruction giving in this book, men and women can learn to fully engage and develop the senses with which they are endowed to make sex and life itself, more beautiful and fulfilling than ever thought possible.
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Increase overall sexual power and desire |
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Expand or renew intimacy with your partner |
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Rejuvenate your body and slow down the aging process |
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Take lovemaking to a whole new level of pleasure, ecstasy and fulfillment that will actually become a spiritual experience for most who use these techniques |
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Strengthen your health |
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Eliminate and avoid a whole host of health problems such as depression, fatigue, impotence, prostrate problems, premature ejaculation, urinary and kidney problems, back pain and more |
For those who love edging, denial and chastity this book explains the benefits of redirecting a man’s sexual energy back into his body after edging. Brings a new understanding to this practice.
When I told my new friend I wanted to write a review on his book he didn’t think you, my readers would be interested. I assured him you would be! This book, laid out in an autobiographical form, takes you through what he learned, has applied in his life and is living proof that the strength of our sexuality should last until we take our last breath!
It teaches about touch, learning to feel, communication, honor and awakening the whole body to a stronger and healthier sexual life! And aren’t we seeking to live our lives fully? Isn’t that why we seek an ‘on the edge’ lifestyle?
I encourage you to click on the cover of his book and any of the links I’ve provided to his web site and see for your self. You are worth the investment and you will be enriched by it!
